There is a little building across the street from me.
I would say six, eight units max.
I know a few people who live in it.
Not well, but well enough to wave to or say ‘Hi’ in the grocery store.
A month or two ago, I saw a for sale sign out front.
One of the units was for sale.
Then a ‘Big Bin’ was dropped out front.
Over the next few days, the bin was filled.
I put two and two together.
Whoever had the unit that was for sale was a ‘hoarder.’
It was incredible how much came out of that unit.
The bin overflowed.
I am telling you this story because I am the total opposite.
The extreme opposite.
There is the hoarder at one end of the spectrum, I am at the other.
It made me think.
Who has the ‘problem?’
Me, or them?
I can get rid of things the second I don’t find them ‘useful.’
I donate, recycle, and pass on to friends.
Same with my phone.
Once a photo is seen, deleted.
I don’t want to ‘carry’ anything extra.
So?
Where am I going with this?
Clothing.
If I see a piece of clothing I am not wearing, it is immediately donated.
Like within the hour.
I love to know that someone is getting a great sweater, a nice pair of pants, or a beautiful shirt.
I feel good.
Not for donating, but more so, that I feel ‘lighter.’
I mean, literally feel lighter.
Something is gone that perhaps was weighing me down.
Haha, okay, so the problem?
Maybe a month later.
A year later.
I will have forgotten I donated that item.
I will go for it, then remember it is gone.
I think, ‘You know? I would have loved to have worn that today.’
Then I think, ‘You know? Someone else is.’
That is all I need to think, and I move on.
‘The Apartment Across the Street’
Insert clothes hanger emoji here.
‘Wear it OUT’